I don’t know if it was so for my three brothers, but whenever we three girls asked my mom what she wanted for Mother’s Day, her birthday, or Christmas she’d invariably say, “A diamond ring, a fur coat, and a trip around the world.”
Nowadays, such requests may not seem that unreasonable, what with seven year olds pocketing iPhones, college students making pilgrimages, and fur coats being faked well enough to warrant splattering by PETA paint.
But back in the 50s, 60s and 70s, these were all big ticket items for the vast majority of American women.
Since my mom wasn’t elitist, extravagant, or pretentious, I didn’t take her wish list seriously. She had a mink-ish stole she dearly loved and wore from time-to-time. She managed to travel to every country and place she ever dreamt of going before she passed away nine years ago at ninety-three. And, she appeared satisfied with wearing her wedding ring during 31 years of marriage and 37 years of widowhood — a wafer thin band of gold, originally mounted with 7 miniscule diamond chips, two of them missing from forever ago.
“This diamond ring doesn’t shine for me anymore,” she’d chime along with Gary Lewis and the Playboys back in ‘65.
“Are you planning on taking it off and selling it?” I once asked.
“No,” she admitted. “Remember, dear, the first ring represents your beginning and shouldn’t cost more than what you can safely afford. The last ring shows how far you’ve gotten. It may weigh more and the stone will be bigger — but that ring is less about who you are, and more about who you just think you are.”
Costume jewelry was more my mother’s style, mostly sets of necklaces and bracelets with complementing clip-on earrings, cloth flowers with pin backs, hair combs studded with rhinestones, and watches with exchangeable bands. It was while rummaging through these, kept in an old cedar box stamped Souvenir of Gaylord, that I detected the faint fragrance of her Yardley Lavender still lingering there as I matched each pretty piece of paste to memories of the outfit she wore and the special occasion that warranted the wearing. That is, except for one out-of-place, unfamiliar, etched gold band with a solitaire diamond setting that seemed a perfect starter ring for a young (or young-at-heart) someone who hoped to commit, or celebrate a first anniversary, or wear on the pinky until presenting it as a simple act of friendship to another.
It’s a dainty little ring, perfectly capable of stirring up tender emotions — but one I’d never wear since it wasn’t given to me by my lifelong love.
So, I’ve decided to let someone else create a warm memory by giving this diamond ring away (original retail price estimated at $150.00).
If you’d like to be included in the random drawing to own this diamond ring, simply quote your favorite line from Imogene’s Eloise, citing the book and the chapter on your Facebook timeline, tagging me in it.
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If you know of someone who’d make good use of this diamond ring, SHARE this.
The random drawing will be held on June 3rd at 11:58 a.m., with the recipient announced both here and on Facebook.
NO PURCHASE IS NECESSARY, since anyone can read the first 7 chapters on Amazon for FREE, but in addition to giving this diamond ring away (and in case you want to read the entire book), I’m slashing the Kindle edition of Imogene’s Eloise to $1.99 for 7 days from April 10th through April 16th, because I think my mom would approve of me using this ring to encourage a little romance.
Besides, it’s not as if I’m giving her wedding ring away.
That tarnished band of holes and chips has resided on my right pinky since she passed, and will remain there until I do, as testament to the woman whose namesake I am, her role in my own beginning, and the cherished memories of her I couldn’t-wouldn’t sacrifice — not even for a diamond ring, a fur coat, and a trip around the world.
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